Fifth Rule Of Love

Fifth Rule: You can study God through everything and everyone in the Universe, because God is not confined in a mosque, synagogue, temple or church. But if you are still in need of knowing where exactly His abode is, there is only one place to look for Him: in the heart of a true lover.

I saw this movie once called "Taal". By the way, it is on youtube.com and it is free to watch. In that movie, a guy is in love with this beautiful girl but his awfully rich businessman father would not let him marry that girl. And, he tells his father with so much confidence that, I do not believe in pettiness so, I would not run away or make a mockery of our family in front the world. But, If God resides in my heart, If I am righteous, If my love is true then not me but you will bring her to me. There was so much confidence in his voice and words he said that even his father was left speechless.

                 That guy portrayed true love in his heart, and that's where I see God, Himself. In people with such will power and innocence in their eyes these people have God in them. If you are right, and honest to your self, and seeking something in your life then you will one day get you just have to keep on willing for it. 

A mother's love for her kid is as pure as true love and that's why in her we see God. 

                  I come from a conservative, orthodox Indian family but still I believe that God is inside me and I can talk to Him whenever and wherever I want to. I might have visited many temples in my life but when I want to talk to Him. I just close my eyes. One has to really believe in this concept that He is everywhere yet no where. That, He will always be there for you and you just have to believe and love Him.

Hence, the rule states, Try finding Him in your self rather than outside. Love Him and He will be there for you. 

Fourth Rule

Fourth Rule: Most of the problems of the world stem from linguistic mistakes and simple understandings. Don’t ever take words at face value. When you step into the zone of love, language as we know it becomes obsolete. That which cannot be put into worlds can only be grasped through silence.

 

We all experience love in our lives in so many different ways. Love is never shown by words it is felt by words, actions, and silence. We all need someone to love us unconditionally and to just be there for us. If you really love someone you will never let them go. You will always try to be part of their lives no matter how far away you are from them emotionally or physically. Because, in love things done in anger, jealousy, depression, and ego do not matter that just defines who you are. 

             

           It is humane thing to simplify every thing and to find the real meaning behind something. There are times you just have to be there in silence for the moment to pass and one day everything will be alright. This friend of mine, is immensely sarcastic and he has to say things which are downright hurtful but right. His words, are so real that it hurts sometimes but I have to look past the hurt and comprehend the things he says are actually good for me. His language hurts me but I would still call him and talk because no matter what he is my best friend and I love him. Moreover, he was always there when I would fall to catch me and take me in his protection. I never noticed him but he was always there silently waiting for me to understand his silent love.

         We complicate our lives by generalizing our facts and saying words which breeds misunderstandings. Sometimes we just have to feel the love rather than analyzing it and know that someday someone would love you so much that no words would and only silence will show you the way.